{"product_id":"the-couples-codex","title":"The Couples Codex","description":"\u003cp class=\"break-words\" style=\"word-break: break-word; overflow-wrap: anywhere;\"\u003e\u003cspan class=\"font-semibold break-words\" style=\"word-break: break-word; overflow-wrap: anywhere;\"\u003eStop fighting about unspoken expectations. Write the rules of your relationship together in one serious, handwritten operating system.\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp class=\"break-words\" style=\"word-break: break-word; overflow-wrap: anywhere;\"\u003e\u003ccode class=\"text-sm bg-muted py-0.5 px-1.5 rounded-md break-words font-mono text-foreground\"\u003eWho this is for:\u003c\/code\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp class=\"break-words\" style=\"word-break: break-word; overflow-wrap: anywhere;\"\u003e\u003ccode class=\"text-sm bg-muted py-0.5 px-1.5 rounded-md break-words font-mono text-foreground\"\u003e• Serious, committed couples (dating, engaged, or married) who want to stop tiptoeing around hard topics.\u003cbr\u003e• Partners who want clear, written expectations about money, time, sex, family, phones, and conflict.\u003cbr\u003e• Couples who like pen-and-paper and want a physical “operating system” they can come back to for years.\u003c\/code\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp class=\"break-words\" style=\"word-break: break-word; overflow-wrap: anywhere;\"\u003eThe Couples Codex is a serious, fill‑it‑in‑together relationship workbook.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp class=\"break-words\" style=\"word-break: break-word; overflow-wrap: anywhere;\"\u003e\u003ccode class=\"text-sm bg-muted py-0.5 px-1.5 rounded-md break-words font-mono text-foreground\"\u003eWhat you get inside:\u003c\/code\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp class=\"break-words\" style=\"word-break: break-word; overflow-wrap: anywhere;\"\u003e\u003ccode class=\"text-sm bg-muted py-0.5 px-1.5 rounded-md break-words font-mono text-foreground\"\u003e• A 250+ page, 7x10, coil‑bound workbook you fill in by hand together at the table.\u003cbr\u003e•\n Guided prompts across 17 pillars of your life together: money, sex, \ntime \u0026amp; chores, kids, in‑laws, phones \u0026amp; social media, conflict \n\u0026amp; repair, faith, and more.\u003cbr\u003e•\n A repeatable “Codex line” template that turns recurring fights and \nvague resentments into clear, written rules you both agree to.\u003c\/code\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp class=\"break-words\" style=\"word-break: break-word; overflow-wrap: anywhere;\"\u003eIt guides you through 17 pillars of your life together – money, sex, trust, respect, time, kids, in‑laws, phones, health and more – and helps you turn unspoken expectations into clear, written rules you both agree on.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp class=\"break-words\" style=\"word-break: break-word; overflow-wrap: anywhere;\"\u003eThis is the working, coil‑bound edition you write in together at the table.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp class=\"break-words\" style=\"word-break: break-word; overflow-wrap: anywhere;\"\u003e\u003ccode class=\"text-sm bg-muted py-0.5 px-1.5 rounded-md break-words font-mono text-foreground\"\u003eHow it works:\u003c\/code\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003col\u003e\n\u003cli class=\"break-words\" style=\"word-break: break-word; overflow-wrap: anywhere;\"\u003e\n\u003ccode class=\"text-sm bg-muted py-0.5 px-1.5 rounded-md break-words font-mono text-foreground\"\u003eSet aside a “Codex Day” (or a couple of evenings) to sit together with the workbook and a pen.\u003c\/code\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003ccode class=\"text-sm bg-muted py-0.5 px-1.5 rounded-md break-words font-mono text-foreground\"\u003e2. Work through the guided prompts in each pillar and write your own Codex lines – the rules you’re both agreeing to.\u003c\/code\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003ccode class=\"text-sm bg-muted py-0.5 px-1.5 rounded-md break-words font-mono text-foreground\"\u003e3. Keep the Codex somewhere visible and come back to it during check‑ins, big life changes, or when a fight keeps repeating\u003c\/code\u003e\n\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003c\/ol\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\u003ccode class=\"text-sm bg-muted py-0.5 px-1.5 rounded-md break-words font-mono text-foreground\"\u003eCommon questions:\u003c\/code\u003e\u003ccode class=\"text-sm bg-muted py-0.5 px-1.5 rounded-md break-words font-mono text-foreground\"\u003e\u003c\/code\u003e\u003ccode class=\"text-sm bg-muted py-0.5 px-1.5 rounded-md break-words font-mono text-foreground\"\u003e\u003c\/code\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp class=\"break-words\" style=\"word-break: break-word; overflow-wrap: anywhere;\"\u003e\u003ccode class=\"text-sm bg-muted py-0.5 px-1.5 rounded-md break-words font-mono text-foreground\"\u003eQ: Is this therapy?\u003c\/code\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003ccode class=\"text-sm bg-muted py-0.5 px-1.5 rounded-md break-words font-mono text-foreground\"\u003eA:\n No. The Couples Codex is a structured workbook, not a replacement for \ntherapy. It helps you get clear on expectations and rules so any support\n you do get (from mentors, counselors, or books) has something concrete \nto work with.\u003c\/code\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\u003ccode class=\"text-sm bg-muted py-0.5 px-1.5 rounded-md break-words font-mono text-foreground\"\u003e\u003c\/code\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp class=\"break-words\" style=\"word-break: break-word; overflow-wrap: anywhere;\"\u003e\u003ccode class=\"text-sm bg-muted py-0.5 px-1.5 rounded-md break-words font-mono text-foreground\"\u003eQ: Do we both have to fill it in together?\u003c\/code\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003ccode class=\"text-sm bg-muted py-0.5 px-1.5 rounded-md break-words font-mono text-foreground\"\u003eA:\n Yes. This only works if both partners are at the table. The Codex is \ndesigned to be written in together so no one feels like rules are being \nhanded down to them\u003c\/code\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\u003ccode class=\"text-sm bg-muted py-0.5 px-1.5 rounded-md break-words font-mono text-foreground\"\u003e\u003c\/code\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e","brand":"The Couples Codex","offers":[{"title":"Default Title","offer_id":43024056189022,"sku":"COD-001","price":69.0,"currency_code":"USD","in_stock":true}],"thumbnail_url":"\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/0667\/0178\/7230\/files\/ChatGPTCover_e2598946-dd02-47bb-9568-c38e98a80660.png?v=1784376276","url":"https:\/\/thecouplescodex.com\/products\/the-couples-codex","provider":"The Couples Codex","version":"1.0","type":"link"}